Warning Signs He's About to Bail

I created this list based on past experiences...enjoy and feel free to comment and/or add your own.

1. He meets many of your friends, but he has yet to introduce you to any of his.

2. He makes no mention of you to his family. In other words, they have no idea you exist.

3. His daily phone calls start getting replaced by text messages, if even that.

4. When you suggest an activity to do in the future, he neither confirms wanting to do it or denies being to do it (i.e., relationship limbo)

5. Five minutes after he calls you and leaves a voice mail, you call back to find that his phone has been turned off.

6. He can only talk at very specific times throughout the day that somehow always correspond to when you're busy.

7. He flakes on plans, repeatedly.

8. He can't make up his mind on when to hang out.

9. He suddenly becomes very busy.

10. He doesn't answer specifics when you ask him how his day was-- he speaks of everything in general terms so you feel like you're in the dark.

11. He stops telling you his future plans.

12. He's not as talkative as usual.

13. He can't have a conversation for more than 10 minutes without telling you he'll have to call you back.

14. He tells you that he'll call back in 10 minutes and that turns into 3 hours instead.

15. Your weekly date night vanishes-- he doesn't seem to want to hang out anymore like routine.

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  1. Here's a few of mine:

    1. He tells you, "I'm about to bail on you." Hey, at least it's honest and direct, right? Haha.

    2. He starts telling you a ton of immature jokes, especially poop jokes. This is his attempt to get you to dump him.

    3. He signs up on a dating website. Haha.

    4. He finds a topic you disagree on, then continually brings it up to you.

    5. He purposely dirties up his feet, then goes to sleep. The next morning he brags about it to you.

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